Rara Querida's

The story about a girl who have narcissistic parents

"You are stupid!, you're lazy!, you are careless!, you are fat!. you always do that! you never change, you are useless, you don't love me, you should thankfull that i've raised you !!"


"I'm NOT Proud of you !!! "


have you ever heard that kind of lines? 
it's hars statements and gives you negative impact.
it makes you drop suddenly.


and the most important,  it hurts your feeling. Right?


You think they are right, so you deserve that labelling.


But you forget. it's your parent who says that kind of judgement.


A parents should support their child, nurture, caring, protecting, and loving. do they ever do that to you?


do you feel it? 
the love from them?


and remember this, that kind of parents, is very destructive to your life. 


the impact is, you'll loose your self respect, you'll not have confidenity, you feel you are useless, because you loose your self esteem.


no matter how you try to be a better person,
no matter how perfect you are.
no matter how people see you are flawless.
no matter how you try to impress them..


you still can't hear the positive sides of you.
and still, they'll able to find your weaknesses.  


you'll end up feel hopeless and lonely.
you feel everybody like them.
you feel nobody will love you.
and somtimes , you have thought to commited suicide, kill your self.


you feel the world is very mean to you. and if you're dead, they will regrets what they did to you.


please. stop! stop torture your self. stop dying!. stop think killing your self.


because there is still a way for you , there are still hope.
and you will eventually find your happiness.




this is the story about a girl who have narcissistic parents.


and the girl is me.


So, don't worry, i'm gonna tell you how to survive from that kind of parent's. either it's your mother, or it's your father. Either you still live with them or not.


You'll be a happy person. 
you will success.
you will have a wonderfull and peacefull life that you have always wanted.
you can do anything you want.
you will get your dreams come true.


if you belief.


:-)